I am SO over you.

I am SERIOUSLY over people who use me, people who take me for granted,and people who walk all over me.



I am SO over the people who "expect" things of you. Who dont consider, HEY!! I have a life to attend to to.. oh.. no no no.. let me take care of YOURS.. MINE can wait, of course!!!



I am over people who GUILT you. I "joke" guilt with Mike (IE- "Ohh..its okay.... I'll just pass out from hunger so you can watch this TV show...Just try to shake me when its over so I can eat..") But the people who truly CONSTANTLY have a "poooorrr me" about everything so you just feel guiltily obligated..THEY SUCK.



I am over people who are CHEAP. It is ONLY money. The whole "you cant take it with you" is popular for a REASON. If you need to remind people of gifts they've been given, or favors you've done, or basically be a cheap ass. Heres the deal for me.. Dont get me ANYTHING. Dont give me anything, dont DO anything for me. Because THAT, is wasted when you later bitch about it/hold it over my head/complain/whine/moan.

I'm not saying "go nuts: with buying things, I'd be perfectly fine if no one ever bought me or gave me a gift again. Its the attitude I dont like, the ((scoff)) Well I got you_____"

Wow..and I really appreciated that, I'm REALLY sorry I twisted your am until you had no choice to get me __ and now your obviously remorseful. Seriously?? STFU.





I am over the "friends" who dont have ANYTHING to say to me unless oh!! THEY NEED SOMETHING.



I am over the whole "but they're family" thing. THIS one my friends, has been a LONG time coming, I've just never had a "reason" to put it in writing. If you had a friend, who called you names/who treated you badly/who hurt your feelings/stole from you/etc.. You would NOT keep them in your life...RIGHT??

I cant think of a sane person who would say "Please, more!!" So WHY does EVERYONE always say "well.. they're my mom/dad/sister/brother.." like its OKAY to let someone treat you like this??

WHO CARES. Wow.. I mean..gosh.. I'm having a bad day..I guess I'm going to go kick my sister in the face because HEY!! She'll forgive me.. I mean..we ARE family after all!!! Well..my sister is so nice she'd probably cry apologizing for whatever she did to make me kick her in the face.. But a typical person would say "Wow.. F you..You kicked me in the face.. Dont talk to me again!"

So why do people keep negative, hurtful,m even abusive people in their lives when they BRING THEM DOWN, for NO other reason than, they are family??For example.. I love my mom & all but if she treated me super SUPER shitty.. mother or not..I dont need that in my life..and hell, I'd HOPE my family would do the same to ME!!!

Sorry..I just dont buy it.



I'm over people who offend you, you kindly tell them "Look..when you do ___ it upsets me for ___ reason" and they KEEP doing it. Or, when you even give people a heads up "Hey..I'm feeling a bit sensitive about ____ could you not bring it up so I dont feel even worse than I already do?? And not only do they bring it up..but over the next few months, or even YEAR.. they REPETIVELY bring it up.. Despite how many times you ask..either they DONT GET IT. Or they dont CARE. I dont know which is worse.



To sum it up.....





I'm over people who...

• act like they're your kids parents


• give too much advice


• are rude about parenting choices


• are offensive/think they know it all


• know NOTHING


• dont do research on their own


• are mean to animals


• take someones word as best & dont question things


• kick dogs


• eat soft eggs ((gag))


• act like fart jokes arent funny


• cant take JOKES


• are assholes


• work in customer service/with the public who have gigantic sticks up their asses


• dont brush their teeth..seriosuly dude.. Gross.


• get all up in my busssiness


• pronounce it "li-barry" LI-BRA-RY


• saw "worsh" ..where is there a R is WASH???


• dont wash their face in the morning..when I was little.. I mean like..third grade, the kids with eye boogers.. Gross.. HTF hard is it to wash your face?? COME ON.


• snort snot. BLOW PEOPLE, BLOW. This is why tissues were created!!!!


• use me


• guilt me


• are cheap ( not cheap as in.. penny saving but like "OMG..I spent $5 on this for you!!!" @@


• people who just dont "get it".. EVER.


• People who THINK they "get it" but..REALLY really REALLY..D-O-N-T

And last but not least..

I am SO over people who are just plain fucking stupid.

I'm off to read God's blog..I see he was making something in the microwave last update...

Well! LOTS to catch up on.. I started a new medication this last week that has this minor little side effect, called.. Trouble breathing.
So.. I've been feeling pretty bad lately, hopefully we'll get it all cleared up today when I go to the doctor!!

Lets see.. Ryan is just getting over Roseola. Yucko! He had his well check & he weighs a bit over 20lbs and is almost 31 inches tall. He is quite advanced physically, as we already knew & she was shocked at what an easy going baby he is ( she knows Andy, haha!)

Andy is really putting together LOTS of words.. he tells me to put my coffee down when I only offer him one hand to jump & am holding my cup in the other.. He is pretty much forming sentences that make sense, all on his own. Its pretty cool. He's also learning all the lyrics to his 2 favorite songs, "All I wanna Do" by Sugarland and his "car song" 'Life is a Highway" by Rascal Flatts. He does the motions they do in the videos, sings, dances & plays guitar right along with them!

Mike is at the end of the semester, lets all cross fingers he aces exams!!! Then he has about a month of break to be at home.. all day.. with US!!!! ..Poor guy...

Chuck the cat is doing quite well.. other than chewing & playing with EVERYTHING b/c Andy keeps losing her toys.. she's really good. Ryan is in LOOOVEE with the cats.. he gets SO excited to see them & when he catches one for a pet, its probably the highlight of his little life so far.

I'd say Andy is having a liitttllee trouble with sharing & being gentle lately..he means well, of course. I think we really need an Andy date before too long, to just spend on him.

We are taking the boys Friday for professional pictures. I've never taken them before this, so I'm pretty excited! I wont spoilt it by saying what they're wearing..but.. I'm expecting it to be PRETTY cute!!!! I hope it goes well & Andy gives NICE smiles ;-)

Mike & I saw Twilight yesterday. It was good..but I am always dissapointed with movies after I've read the book.. I expect a bit TOO much. I think Little Women is the only one that I've perfectly loved the movie as the book.

Getting excited fpr Christmas over here!! I'm thinking we arent going to put up a big tree this year.. Ryan is too into things & I could se ehim pulling it over on himself, or the kitten climbing it.. Our house is TOO small for that!!

Andy has adopted an old bracelet of mine..its covered in tiny jingle bells. He LUURVVEES it.. Hes sitting on my lap right now stroking it, jingling it & telling me how pretty it is and singing Life Is a Highway. he also has a new love for pockets.. He tries to put anything he can in them..things much much MUCH bigger than the pockets themselves.. He's a sweet boy, my Andy.

Well.. Its time to get back to cleaning.. I guess I've sat here attempting to breath for long enough..Silly breathing..Like its a necessity or something crazy!!!!

Breakfast Meat & Brothers

I've been working on this blog in my head for WEEKS now.

Andy has a major love for breakfast meat.. He asks for sausage in the morning, he likes bacon.. He is truly MY child. On a cloth diaper forum I post on.. once someone said " I mean, who REALLY needs more than 2 pieces anyway?" And I thought.... shit... Last time my sister visited when I was still pregnant, Mike made me like, a whole PLATE of sausage!! .. Then again..I DO tend to gain 40-60 lbs in my pregnancy, LOL.

So.. The other day we had abuddy, Sam come over in the AM so his mommy coul dget to work when her usual kiddo watcher was sick & Mike work oup & found a pound of thick cut peppered bacon I had in the fridge for a dinner. He spent the whoel time frying, and baking .. bacon. Attempting to find "the trick"

And our house smelled like bacon..and it was FABulous.


So.. It has been giving me this fond memory when I realized how TRULY wonderful my BROTHER, Matt ( my sisters hubby!) is..

Ahh yes.. I remember it all too well ((fog comes in as I recall..))))

We were visiting them at his parents house in FL, Andy was just a few weeks old.. Matt was inpressed with Andys massive farting ability ( which by the way..Matt.. he farted on Mikes back while sleeping last night.. a pusher, Mike told me..and he told me today in the car "Butt FARTED!!!" ...Hes so sweet, isnt he???)
But then the perfect moment came.. It was breakfast... bacon, ham, sausage, steak?? Mike & I were perplexed with the decision.... We stood there..debating.. Steak is a given.. but how would we EVER choose between the rest??

I cant recall the exact words.. the memory is just TOO intense.. but something along the lines of "can we have them all?" and Matt's "somethingsomething ...after my own heart" and I just thought "Wow..I TRULY know why Mischa loves him now.. he is AMAZING."

Ah yes... So.. Lately, in our love for breakfast meats.. I've been thinking lots of my meat faithful brother.. Matt.. I toast to you.. tomorrow morning..I will raise my sausage link in the air.. I will eat it.. and then..I will make some bacon. You are truly a brother of substance.. Greasy, fatty, meaty goodness substance. Just the way I always envisioned my perfect brother in law!!!

xo

Tons of pictures...

It is impossible to get a good picture of BOTH kids.. One is always doing something funky..Check it out..

Another attempt after the haircut...

Another day..

Some actualy cute ones.. where they look NORMAL & not in pain!!!!!

Dont you know?? Our dog is as sweet, soft & smells as good as an angel!?!?!

My happy boy =0)

Us today =)

Probably the best picture these stinkers have ever taken, LOL!

Ryan is going to be T-R-O-U-B-L-E.

Love them!!!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Happy Turkey Day evewryone!!!

Guess what??

I HATE HOLIDAYS!!!!
Yep..being an adult REALLY takes all the fun out of it.. and then having kids, that just makes it even worse. You spend an hour in the car, then you have a nice time.. but its all quickly forgotten by the hellish ride home with over tired children screaming in your ear the ENTIRE way.Of course, if your a dad, its no biggie, but if your a mom it pulls these certain heart strings that make you yell at your husband.

Color me green & call me scrooge..

That being said.. we had a nice time today!! (Minus the car ride, obviously!!) I like Mikes family more & more the more I get to know them, we don't go over there too often, likely due to the rediculously crabby car ride, but we really should. Andy is simply smitten with Mikes sister Nikki & his brother Johnny. And he loooveess Gramps! He talks about the 3 of them quite often. There was lots of good food, Linda, as always was great & insisted on holding Ryan when he got crabby so I could eat. She was the only one who got to hold Ryan, he was a CRAB!! And I mean.. pinchers out, angry red C-R-A-B!!! Hes also covered in a red rash.. I'm worried its celery.. last night I was eating celery & I let him mouth a bit & this AM he's covered in a rash =(
I REALLY hope that's not the case.. he has a well visit tomorrow, so we shall see.

I dressed the boys alike today. Its horrible, but I love them EVEN more when they are dressed the same.. they can do no wrong. They are just TOO cute & impossible to resist!!
(as I hear Ryan calling out & then Andy screaming back in his face in the next room..(((sigh))) OH!! He's saying " No, its mine ball!" .. and to think..we used to wish he had a bigger vocab, HA!!!

I havent been blogging much lately, been busy.... and.. crabby..... and tired too. Ryan has had a fever which hasnt been fun to deal with, I've had appointments, needing to wake early.. it all just sucks. Basically!

But don't you worry your pretty little heads..there are some FABULOUS things coming up for my few readers.. I have a serious plan in motion..its just a matter of time ( this is where I tap my fingers together..and cackle...)

So.. Happy Thanksgiving!! I hope you all ate so much you felt like you were about to puke...And then you had pie.

xo!

Tears of Inspiration

Book Three..

11pm..Saturday..

DOOOONNEEE!!!!!!!

Oh..and I cooked a Thanksgiving dinner today.. Yeah.. I know.. I'm AHHHMMAAZZINNGG!!!